Monday, June 30

Missing our Friends

I was avoiding even the thought of writing this post. Our close friends, Sean and Carlie, moved to Colorado this past weekend. The entire week was rather heart wrenching for me. From watching the movers pack their home into a large orange truck to our final goodbye on Saturday morning as they left for the airport. We experienced every possible LAST (at least for now). Our last family dinner at the park, our last 'girls night in', our last meal at Snapper Jacks together, our last really good margarita and there are so many more. Carlie and Sean, along with Connor and Camille, have been irreplaceable friends to us. We will miss them more than we can even imagine.

Here are a few of my all time favorite Leach photos.


Connor and Brooklyn have a very sweet relationship. Could there be something in their future???



Note: Yes, Brooklyn is on the cellphone!



Bailey and her boys; Connor and Liam.



Carlie and I enjoyed going through our pregnancies together. This picture was taken a week before Buddy was born (Camille arrived one month later).



Special friends from the very beginning :)



Some things are just more comfortable with a friend.



One sweet face!

Lemonade Crunchy Ice

Lemonade Crunchy Ice
Sip it once, Sip it twice
Turn around, touch the ground.





Schoolyard songs with hand jives have changed in the past few years. The Lemonade diddy is something that I am only familiar with because I have a seven year old who LOVES to sing! Do you remember MISS SUE? Well, now the song says that her real name is Susanna. I was not aware of that when I was singing the song in Second grade. We just called her Miss Sue- go figure. I digress!!!!! The reason for the post was to announce that we are having a lemonade stand in our backyard this Saturday from 10-1. The kids are helping to earn money towards Tate's adoption. We would love to have EVERYONE stop by. I will post more information as the date gets closer.

Get well soon Stace!

This post is meant as a shout out to my cousin Stacy. She was sick all weekend. Hope this video makes you feel a little better, Stace.

We miss you.
We are praying for you.
We love you!




I took this video on Friday morning. After Dad took the kids to get donuts they went for a walk around the neighborhood (yes, he is brave). He called me outside so I could see Maddie pulling Buddy home. SUPER CUTE!

Saturday, June 28

New Video Camera

Ok, so we got a new video camera.

Here is the story...
At first I was a little skeptical about Mike's purchase. You see, we already have a video camera. Although it is several years old now it still seems fairly small to me. I have a very vivid mental picture of my dad filming my birthday parties with the '10 gallon' camera on his shoulder. Our camera is rather miniature in comparison. Besides that fact we REALLY need a new digital camera. We lost ours (along with some incredible photos) at the beach on Father's Day. :( Anyway, the new video camera arrived in the mail on Tuesday and I'm hooked to say the least! It is smaller than my cellphone!!! This will be my first attempt at adding video to the blog. I hope it works.

Turn the volume down so your ears won't hurt listening to me sing to Emmett - I'm SERIOUS!

Sunday, June 22

YAHOO!

We received our final fingerprinting appointment in the mail last Friday afternoon. The kids and I could not have been more excited. We were doing the 'happy dance' all around the kitchen. Bailey was singing "We're bringing Tate home, Yahoo, we're bringing Tate home". Brooklyn, with her usual dry sense of humor, points out that even our dog Maddie is excited. I look over the edge of the table at Maddie expecting in the very least her tail (stub) to be wagging. There is Maddie completely asleep oblivious to the noise around her! Brooklyn must have thought she was celebrating in her head. :)

Orphan Facts and Statistics

Many of you have asked us recently why we are adopting from Eastern Europe. Here are a few reasons why...

There are over 4 million orphans and homeless children in Russia and Ukraine. Officially, there are 700,000 orphans living in 2,000 state-run orphanages in Russia alone. That means that Russia has more orphans today than after World War II! Statistics show that only one out of ten Russian orphans becomes a functional member of society. The others are lost to drugs, crime and suicide. Millions of Russian children are on the run living on the streets or in underground sewers desperately needing basic food, medicine and clothes.

Russia's abandoned HIV children, 2006
Russia has one of the fastest growing Aids epidemics in the world, with 100 new infections every day. Increasingly, women and their infants are being affected.

IBIS report on Birth Defects, 2006
10% of children in orphanages have birth defects indicative of pre-natal exposure to alcohol. According to standards of Modern Developmental Pediatrics children in Ukrainian orphanages are receiving care that is far from ideal.

Unicef Report on Poverty and Abandonment of Children in Ukraine 2005
More than 100,000 children are thought to have been surrendered to orphanages due to poverty. - The number of children living on the streets has risen steadily over the past decade, creating urgent problems in human trafficking for forced prostitution, forced labour and sexual exploitation.

Report on HIV/AIDS in Ukraine, 2004
Mother-to-child transmission of HIV in Ukraine increased from 2% of total infections in 1997 to 13% in 2001. Many of these children are surrendered to the orphanage system.

“On the state of the children in the Russian Federation”, 2003
4 million Russian children were born out of wedlock in the last 10 years. 400,000 illegitimate children were born in 2002, a 40 thousand annual increase.

Committee on the Rights of The Child in Ukraine, 2002
Children in orphanages lack food, medical care, and suitable facilities. Mortality in orphanages is dramatically high. They have been called "death houses". At the beginning of 2000 it was determined that the financial situation of institutions for children with special needs had worsened and most of these children would be denied education.

The CoMission for Children at Risk, 2002
About 15,000 Russian orphans leave orphanages each year, once they are 16 to 18 years old. Of these, 5,000 are unemployed, some 6,000 are homeless, around 3,000 resort to crime, approximately 1,500 commit suicide, and roughly half the girls are forced into prostitution.

Ministry of Education of the Russian Federation, 2000
After leaving their orphanages:
# 50% - fall into a high-risk category
# 40% - become drug users
# 40% - commit crimes
# 10% - commit suicide

European Children's Trust, 2000
Over forty million children in the former Soviet Union are living in "genuine poverty".

Human Rights Watch, 1998.
Orphans in Russia - of whom 95 percent still have a living parent - are exposed to shocking levels of cruelty and neglect. Infants classified as disabled are segregated into "lying-down" rooms, where they are changed and fed but are bereft of stimulation and lacking in medical care.

Of a total of more than 600,000 children classified as being "without parental care", as many as one-third reside in institutions, while the rest are placed with a variety of guardians. Thousands more are temporarily quartered in various public shelters and institutions under police jurisdiction simply waiting for an available space in an orphanage.

Thousands of children are abandoned to the state at a rate of 113,000 a year for the past two years, up dramatically from 67,286 in 1992. The evidence gathered reveals several systematic disadvantages imposed on young Russian orphans, which violate their fundamental rights to survival and development, and place them in a underclass.

Friday, June 13

Congratulations Kailey


Mike and I had the privilege of watching our cousin, Kailey, graduate from Buena High School last night. Kailey will be attending Point Loma in the Fall. We are excited to see what the Lord has planned for her future.

Thursday, June 12

Funny Story

I thought I would write a post about one of the funniest things Bailey has ever said. This happened a few weeks ago but Brooklyn made a piggyback remark that reminded me of the original story.

Bailey and I were at Trader Joe's purchasing some fresh flowers (for our open house). As we opened the back to Mike's truck Bailey asked, "what is that packing box for”. I explained that the box she was referring to was the box that Daddy brings the fruit and veggies home from work in (Santa Barbara produce). She looked totally confused. After a moment thinking about it she said "Veggies? I thought you said Daddy brings home the BACON". She couldn't figure out why I thought it was so funny. We have repeated that story so many times that now Bailey knows what 'bringing home the bacon' means. Brooklyn on the other hand has no clue. Last night while driving home from Target she said "Mommy, do think Daddy is going to bring home chicken or bacon". :)

Fingerprints

Our fingerprints and background checks came back today. We are one step closer to bringing our sweet baby home. This Saturday will be our final social worker visit.

Wednesday, June 11

Home for Sale?

Contrary to what many of you may believe after driving by our home; we have NOT sold our house! We took our house off of the market last week, hence no signs in the yard. We realized that a change of address would hurt our chances of bringing Tate home as soon as possible. Therefore, we are putting our move on hold until we bring him home.

Friday, June 6

Home from the Hospital

We are home from the Hospital. Bailey's surgery went really well. It was probably harder on us than it was on her. We both started to cry as they wheeled her away. It was a very helpless feeling.

Wendy, Carlie and Camille met us in the waiting room and brought breakfast. They were a nice distraction for us. The surgery only took a little over 30 minutes. We were just finishing our food when the doctor called with the news that Bailey was doing wonderful. We were able to meet her in the recovery room a few minutes later. The first thing she said when I walked in was "when are they going to start?". The nurse and I smiled at each other. All of the staff commented that Bailey was such a perfect patient. They said she was talking to everyone about her 3 brothers and 1 sister. The nurse also mentioned that they asked Bailey if she liked school. She proudly announced that she loves school and that her mom is her favorite teacher! ;)

Cheryl and Sarah came over this afternoon with BLENDERS and a special homemade bouquet. Bailey enjoyed having visitors. She was especially excited to show Sarah her hospital band, stickers, band-aids, hair net and stitches. She is now comfortably sleeping on the couch. She will probably stay there for the rest of the day.

My cousin, Bret, is flying in this evening from Idaho. He will be staying through the night and DRIVING home in the morning. We are anxious to catch up with him. We have not seen him in several years. Has has been attending school in Dallas.

Thursday, June 5

Paperwork Complete

After three grueling days and even longer nights we have completed ALL of our Homestudy paperwork. This might be some sort of record. We could not have finished it without the help of some very special friends. Thank you to Mom, Sheryl, Alyssa, Dave, Dr. G, Marcia, Pat, Brent, Jill, and Tony. We took the kids to Wendy's for dinner to celebrate! Now we are waiting to complete our final two social worker visits.

Dr. Garrison


If I haven't told you personally before then you need to know that our family Doctor ROCKS! Bailey and I sat in his office on Wednesday for over an hour as he signed documents and wrote out our medical histories (mine is lengthy but he knows it well). Each document then had to be notarized and photocopied. By the way he was was the person actually making the photocopies ;) Did I mention it was also his DAY OFF! We love you Dr. Garrison.

Bailey


Please keep us in your prayers tomorrow. We are heading to the hospital at 6:45am for Bailey's umbilical hernia surgery. The procedure is scheduled to take place at 8:30am.

A very LONG day

We spent all Saturday down in Pasadena at Heartsent. Stacy came on Friday night so that we could leave early in the morning. The kids were thrilled to have her at the house when they woke up. However, they were very disappointed that Jeff was not visiting too (they are kind of a package deal these days). :)

Our first meeting was with Jill, the director of the Pasadena office. She is very understanding of our situation and helped to plan out as many activities as she could for the day. After meeting with her we had a two hour Orientation class. It was followed by a two hour class regarding the adoption of an 'older child'. Any child over 18 months is considered 'older'. We were slightly burnt out on cold metal chairs at the point! We left the classroom for our first social worker meeting. Not knowing what to expect we were apprehensive. Claire quickly put us at ease and before long our meeting was complete. WHEW- not done yet- We finished the day with a Live Scan background check (fingerprinting).

We arrived home to a driveway filled with chalk drawings and messages. The kids were sound asleep obviously exhausted from a fun day with Stacy. Our bed felt good that night!

The BIRTHDAY celebrations continued


We are finally finished celebrating family birthdays. Buddy turned 3 and Dad turned 60. It was one BUSY week. We combined their birthdays and celebrated with one small family party at our house. I rented a jumper for DAD- Buddy enjoyed it too!

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